I just want to write about one of my lecturer.. I will not expose the identity of the lecturer..It can be anyone...It can be someone that teach me during matriculation or it can be someone that teach me right now...or it can also be someone that i met outside..it can be anyone...and what i can say is that..the person is not important..the story is more important...
This lecturer is 40+ male..He told us about the story that have been told by his wife...About polygamy..His wife friend's want a divorce because the husband want to marry his own student...
What can you say about the story? My lecturer told us that story and ask us to think..He said that as a woman, you must be patient..He don't say that the guy is correct either...He just ask us as women to be patient if we face the same thing in life...Just think about your child and think about the consequences of divorce..
But i look at the story from different angle..i felt that the lecturer's wife want to tell something to him..This is the dialogue that his wife want to tell him actually..i am just creating it...(it is like i am a psychiatrist who can look beyond something:=)...This is the dialogue - "My dear husband, you must beware..you must take a good care about your relation between you and your student..it is not impossible if one day you will said that you want to marry your student"..but the only thing is that..his wife just cannot tell him all the phrases..she want to tell from different angle..she is just being nice...she hope that her husband could understand her..but just sometimes her husband is so blurred to understand her feeling...
Being a woman made me understand women better...i am agree with the book written by John Gray..men are from mars ; women are from venus...there are too many differences between men and women..i am suggesting others to read that book:)
